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Sunday 16 August 2015

Ways for being Strong and Independent women..!!!!

                  

 Live the Life in a way You Love to be .......

                    
                 Being a strong, independent woman doesn't necessarily require that you to be a die-hard feminist. Rather,  it means learning to express who you are at your core, whether you are shy and soft-spoken or loud and assertive, without trying to fit a certain mold implied by your being a female.
The first thing is
ü Don't compare yourself to other women:
While there is nothing wrong with having a female role model to look up to, constantly feeling jealous of other women will leave you feeling horrible about yourself. Usually Female gets jealous on seeing the advertisement models and movie heroines. The result is a culture of women who feel insecure and unhappy with their own bodies.
The first step to overcoming jealousy is to recognize when you are experiencing it. If you find yourself reading a magazine and comparing your own body to those of the models, take a moment to remind that these women are paid to look the way they do, and many of them lead very unhealthy lives to maintain their figures, and women who look "perfect" in magazines or in movies usually look gaunt in real life.Try not to compare your own negative qualities with other women's positive qualities.
Every woman has her own best assets”
ü  Don't feel responsible to follow fashion trends.
Being an independent woman means dressing the way you want, regardless of what people around you are telling you to wear. Use fashion as a way to express your mood, your taste, and your creativity. When deciding what to wear, you should take into account your body type as well as your personal taste.
There's nothing wrong with being fashion-forward, but don't force yourself to keep up with trends that you don't like or that don't look good on you. If you enjoy keeping up with the trends, then learn how to make them work for you.
ü Don't support your happiness on being in a relationship.
 Having a man to love should enhance your life, not define it. No matter how bad you may think you need a relationship, you must first learn to love yourself before you can even begin to love somebody else.

                  Remember that nothing lasts forever
Even the perfect relationship might end one day, so you need to be sure that you have a strong enough cushion to land on after a breakup or divorce. If you are already in a relationship, be sure you have other things going on in your life outside of the relationship, whether it is school, work, friends, a fitness routine, or your family.             
ü  Stay educated.
Being educated not only gives you the skills and knowledge you will need to pursue your career, it also makes you more well-respected by the people you meet  in your life. Your level of education reflects your intelligence and shows others that you care about things other than your own personal life.
`Remember that not all education has to be formal (i.e. attained through an institution like a university). Keep up with current events in politics, science and technology, read books (both fiction and non-fiction), learn another language, watch documentaries, and so on.
ü  Stand up for yourself
You will have to learn to fend for yourself in the real world if you want to avoid being taken advantage of. You must learn how to stand up for yourself at school, at work, and in your social life.
If you hear somebody making a sexist, racist, or otherwise disrespectful comment, don't let it slide. This doesn't necessarily mean engaging in an argument; calmly tell the person that what he or she said is not appreciated. Let people know where they have wronged you. If somebody betrays you in any way, be sure to let him or her know. This will prevent the person from repeating the behavior in the future.

ü  Take care of your body.
Personal strength is manifested physically, mentally, and emotionally. If you want to be a strong, independent woman, you need look no further than your own body.
Exercise for 1 hour every single day. You don't have to be an Olympic champion to be in good shape; go for a jog around the neighbourhood, take your dog for a walk, or go for a bike ride. Staying in shape improves your overall health, your mood, and your energy levels, which will improve your performance in all aspects of your life.
Your diet should consist of fruits, vegetables,  proteins, whole grains, and some dairy. Stay away from excess sugar and fat. I learn to take care of my body after a serious advice from my friend. Now am here to advice you .

ü  Manage your finances.
If you want to be truly independent, you must learn how to pay for your own life so that you don't have to rely on other people. Spend your money wisely, and avoid wasteful or frivolous expenditures. Know your income. When evaluating your income, be sure to take into account the deductions, include state and federal taxes,that will come out of your gross pay.
Prioritize your spending. Your top priorities should be on your basic necessities like food, shelter, and clothing. Things like expensive clothes, concerts, and vacations are luxuries.
Learn how to differentiate between necessities and luxuries.

ü  Help others.
One of the best ways you can exert your strength is to give back to those who are less fortunate than you. You don't have to be rich or affluent to make a positive impact in your community, so start small.
Consider volunteering at a non-profit organization in your community. Identify what issues you are most passionate about.Practice random acts of kindness. You don't have to become a formal volunteer to give back. If you see somebody in need, then help them. Even as small an act as helping somebody carry boxes can brighten up his or her day.

Last but not the least

ü  Protect your sexuality.
Every woman, at one point or another, meet a man who wants to take advantage of her sexually. It is important to learn both how and when to say no to a man who is making unwelcome advances on you.
If a man forces himself on you, then absolutely tell somebody. Society has taught women to feel ashamed or embarrassed for being harass. Letting a man get away with a sexual crime teaches him that it is okay to do it again in the future.
Report sexual harassment in the workplace or at collage. Remember that reporting these kinds of acts is not just for your own good; it could prevent the man from harassing other women in the future.
    “Person who sexually harassing women must be shoot at the spot.”
    “when punishments are severe there will be a chance for decrease in crime rate”
     Always be strong to face the problems. None will stay with you to face your problems. Learn to live independently. Independent doesn’t mean to live alone..It actually means

      

            “ Try to be manage your life without others help”
       Stay blessed and Stay Strong !!!!!!!