Ways for being Strong and Independent women..!!!!

                  

 Live the Life in a way You Love to be .......

                    

                 Being a strong, independent woman doesn't necessarily require that you to be a die-hard feminist. Rather,  it means learning to express who you are at your core, whether you are shy and soft-spoken or loud and assertive, without trying to fit a certain mold implied by your being a female.

The first thing is

ü Don't compare yourself to other women:

While there is nothing wrong with having a female role model to look up to, constantly feeling jealous of other women will leave you feeling horrible about yourself. Usually Female gets jealous on seeing the advertisement models and movie heroines. The result is a culture of women who feel insecure and unhappy with their own bodies.

The first step to overcoming jealousy is to recognize when you are experiencing it. If you find yourself reading a magazine and comparing your own body to those of the models, take a moment to remind that these women are paid to look the way they do, and many of them lead very unhealthy lives to maintain their figures, and women who look "perfect" in magazines or in movies usually look gaunt in real life.Try not to compare your own negative qualities with other women's positive qualities.

“Every woman has her own best assets”

ü  Don't feel responsible to follow fashion trends.

Being an independent woman means dressing the way you want, regardless of what people around you are telling you to wear. Use fashion as a way to express your mood, your taste, and your creativity. When deciding what to wear, you should take into account your body type as well as your personal taste.

There's nothing wrong with being fashion-forward, but don't force yourself to keep up with trends that you don't like or that don't look good on you. If you enjoy keeping up with the trends, then learn how to make them work for you.

ü Don't support your happiness on being in a relationship.

 Having a man to love should enhance your life, not define it. No matter how bad you may think you need a relationship, you must first learn to love yourself before you can even begin to love somebody else.

                   “Remember that nothing lasts forever”

Even the perfect relationship might end one day, so you need to be sure that you have a strong enough cushion to land on after a breakup or divorce. If you are already in a relationship, be sure you have other things going on in your life outside of the relationship, whether it is school, work, friends, a fitness routine, or your family.             

ü  Stay educated.

Being educated not only gives you the skills and knowledge you will need to pursue your career, it also makes you more well-respected by the people you meet  in your life. Your level of education reflects your intelligence and shows others that you care about things other than your own personal life.

`Remember that not all education has to be formal (i.e. attained through an institution like a university). Keep up with current events in politics, science and technology, read books (both fiction and non-fiction), learn another language, watch documentaries, and so on.

ü  Stand up for yourself

You will have to learn to fend for yourself in the real world if you want to avoid being taken advantage of. You must learn how to stand up for yourself at school, at work, and in your social life.

If you hear somebody making a sexist, racist, or otherwise disrespectful comment, don't let it slide. This doesn't necessarily mean engaging in an argument; calmly tell the person that what he or she said is not appreciated. Let people know where they have wronged you. If somebody betrays you in any way, be sure to let him or her know. This will prevent the person from repeating the behavior in the future.

ü  Take care of your body.

Personal strength is manifested physically, mentally, and emotionally. If you want to be a strong, independent woman, you need look no further than your own body.

Exercise for 1 hour every single day. You don't have to be an Olympic champion to be in good shape; go for a jog around the neighbourhood, take your dog for a walk, or go for a bike ride. Staying in shape improves your overall health, your mood, and your energy levels, which will improve your performance in all aspects of your life.

Your diet should consist of fruits, vegetables,  proteins, whole grains, and some dairy. Stay away from excess sugar and fat. I learn to take care of my body after a serious advice from my friend. Now am here to advice you .

ü  Manage your finances.

If you want to be truly independent, you must learn how to pay for your own life so that you don't have to rely on other people. Spend your money wisely, and avoid wasteful or frivolous expenditures. Know your income. When evaluating your income, be sure to take into account the deductions, include state and federal taxes,that will come out of your gross pay.

Prioritize your spending. Your top priorities should be on your basic necessities like food, shelter, and clothing. Things like expensive clothes, concerts, and vacations are luxuries.

“Learn how to differentiate between necessities and luxuries.”

ü  Help others.

One of the best ways you can exert your strength is to give back to those who are less fortunate than you. You don't have to be rich or affluent to make a positive impact in your community, so start small.

Consider volunteering at a non-profit organization in your community. Identify what issues you are most passionate about.Practice random acts of kindness. You don't have to become a formal volunteer to give back. If you see somebody in need, then help them. Even as small an act as helping somebody carry boxes can brighten up his or her day.

Last but not the least

ü  Protect your sexuality.

Every woman, at one point or another, meet a man who wants to take advantage of her sexually. It is important to learn both how and when to say no to a man who is making unwelcome advances on you.

If a man forces himself on you, then absolutely tell somebody. Society has taught women to feel ashamed or embarrassed for being harass. Letting a man get away with a sexual crime teaches him that it is okay to do it again in the future.

Report sexual harassment in the workplace or at collage. Remember that reporting these kinds of acts is not just for your own good; it could prevent the man from harassing other women in the future.

    “Person who sexually harassing women must be shoot at the spot.”

    “when punishments are severe there will be a chance for decrease in crime rate”

     Always be strong to face the problems. None will stay with you to face your problems. Learn to live independently. Independent doesn’t mean to live alone..It actually means

      

            “ Try to be manage your life without others help”

       Stay blessed and Stay Strong !!!!!!!

What is blog and 

Why do people blog...???????? 

What is BLOG???? 
A shared online journel where people can share or express  their  thoughts... 

          Everyone has their own opinion in certain things like society, culture, religions, rules, laws, and politics... 

       Sometimes these opinions or ideas cant be expressed in-person to others..  Those views are expressed in terms of BLOG.... 

         Now a days BLOGs are respected and viewed equal to a business website....  Every BLOG has its own value...  Everyone is trying to express something in  their own way..

    All of us are familiar with the sayings

       "The pen is mightier than the sword" 

    It is a metonymic adage indicating that communication, or in some interpretations, administrative power or advocacy of an independent press, is a more effective tool than direct violence.This sentence was coined by English author Edward Bulwer-Lytton in 1839 for his play Richelieu.. 

EDWARD BULWER LYTTON 

 In earlier period... Pen was the thing which changed everything!!!  Which spoke on behalf of man..!!!! Which fights for man...!!!  Now its turn for a BLOG!!!!

Everyone has their rights to express their opinions in a right way or in a perfect platform... 

   My hobby is to share my views through  BLOGGING!!!!!

       

How it was started...????

            

           It started with updating my personal details during my schooling and later I felt something was worse in our educational system... So I expressed my suggestions about that issue...

          Later I had a idea of sharing my inspirational personalities. The reason for sharing my inspirational characters is  to show how people had faced their situations in a positive way with determination and hope.. I just want to be a motivator for my friends.. I want everyone of my friends, and surroundings to be positive always.. I want them to see positive things even in negative situation..  

        " Attitude is everything"

This is how it was started and It continues...............

Finally,  Why I BLOG???? 

Moreover It's a good feel.!.

I feel like an author.

I feel like a poet...   
And I feel proud of myself... 

    I really felt great.. When someone was reading my words... And started respecting me and my words....

                 I FEEL PROUD TO BE A                                       Blogger!!!!!! 

Inspiration!!!!!!!!!!!

What is Inspiration and What inspire us??? 

      There are a lot of things that can provide inspiration 

----Seeing other people accomplish great things, seeing other people overcome adversity, hearing inspirational quotes from great people, even the sheer beauty of nature can remind us just how lucky we are to be alive.     

        

   
 "Failures are nothing but stepping stones to success". 

          We will see some people who has overcome their failures and proved this saying. 

 My inspiration has started started with my dad.. My first inspiration is My dad.He inspired me in the way he handle the problem.I love the way he cares and his helping tendency to others. 
                

             
          So everyone have inspiration.. It may be a social leader, business man, teacher, friend. Other than my dad... I have inspiration in some social characters.

        Not everyone who's on top today got there with success after success. Every successful persons were faced with numerous obstacles that forced them to work harder and show more determination than others. This can be said for education as well, as furthering your education with a bachelor’s or master’s degree can also help for your success.

      "Next time when you're feeling down about your failures in college or in a career, keep these famous people in mind and remind yourself that sometimes failure is just the first step towards success."

Walt Disney:                                    

  Today Disney in billions from merchandise, movies and theme parks around the world, but Walt Disney himself had a bit of a rough start. "He was fired by a newspaper editor because, "he lacked imagination and had no good ideas." After that, Disney started a number of businesses that didn't last too long and ended with bankruptcy and failure. He kept plugging along, however, and eventually found a recipe for success that worked.

 Albert Einstein:                                              

                Most of us take Einstein's name as synonymous with genius, but he didn't always show such promise." Einstein did not speak until he was four and did not read until he was seven, causing his teachers and parents to think he was mentally handicapped, slow and anti-social. Eventually, he was expelled from school and was refused admittance to the Zurich Polytechnic School" It might have taken him a bit longer, but most people would agree that he caught on pretty well in the end, winning the Nobel Prize and changing the face of modern physics..  He is the best inspiration for every one..

Isaac Newton:                                             

                Newton was undoubtedly a genius when it came to maths,but he had some failings early on. He never did particularly well in school and when put in charge of running the family farm, he failed miserably, so poorly in fact that an uncle took charge and sent him off to Cambridge where he finally blossomed into the scholar we know today.. The legend Newton discovered the Gravity when he saw a falling apple while thinking about the forces of nature..

 Thomas Edition:                                                
         

                                   In his early years, teachers told " Edison he was "too stupid to learn anything." Work was no better, as he was fired from his first two jobs for not being productive enough". Even as an inventor, Edison made 1,000 unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb. Of course, all those unsuccessful attempts finally resulted in the design that worked.

Charlie Chaplin:                            

                
           

                              It's hard to imagine film without the iconic Charlie Chaplin, but his act was initially rejected by Hollywood chiefs because they felt it was a too nonsensical.  But now every ones favourite Comedian is Charlie Chaplin...

J. K. Rowling:                                                
       

                               Rowling.. Now famous for Harry Potter series.. But when she published the series of novels she was nearly penniless, severely depressed, divorced, trying to raise a child on her own while attending school and writing a novel. Rowling, being one of the richest women in the world in a span of only five years through her hard work and determination..

Sachin Tendulkar :                                                    

                    A perfect men for inspiration.  Sachin Tendulkar dint even complete his school but he is considered to be a god of cricket . He had interest  in cricket and decided his carrier to be in cricket.He entered into the cricket world when he was fourteen and he worked hard, faced many struggles. Now his scores are the target for emerging players.

Amitabh Bacchan:                                                      

                  Amitabh Bacchan, now considerd to be a Superstar of Bolly hood was rejected for the job in All india radio because of his heavy voice,but later get succeeded in the cine field after a huge effort and hardwork.He is a great man with full of confidence. He is to be inspired..

Abdul kalam:                  

             

                   A great man to be honoured.  A great personality to be inspired. He was our former president and a great scientist.Even he faced many struggles,  he got rejected in the interview of pilot but he dint give up. He worked hard with  dedication and finally he became a man to remember for ever.

Rajinikanth:

               

                   
                Superstar of kollywood was once a busconductor.   His simplicity,hardwork, dedication, confidence, trust in god brought him to the higher position. He is now nearly 60, still he is simple and hardworking. He is a Man to be known for his simplicity and hardworking.

Finallly, Dhirubhai Ambani:                                               
      

                                 Dhirubhai Ambani  was one of the greatest  visionaries and iconic business tycoons. Can you imagine Dhirubhai Ambani as a clerk in petrol bunk?? Yup, due his family's situation and financial crisis he gave up his education and joined in bunk as a clerk. He made use of that opportunity  and learnt about commodity trading, imports and exports, marketing and everything. This made him to be a iconic business men..!!!

    

          Am sure that all of you people knows about these inspirational characters. Everyone of them got success in the field which they dreamt to be. Initially they were rejected, insulted, penniless, helpless but they had never been hopeless. These few persons are only my inspirations still there are more and more people...

            We are in a stage of inspiring others.. When we will  get inspired by others..?????          

Be Bold to face anything.. Don't lose your hope at anytime. Try to Understand that " Everything happens for a reason and keep on working for your dream.."            

 One day you will reach your goal...  U will reach your destiny...     

         Best of Luck for your Dreams!!!!!! 

Education System in India.!!!!!

"Studying should be from heart and not by heart". 

           Education in India is provided by the public sector as well as the private sector, with control and funding coming from three levels: central, state, and local. Under various articles of the Indian Constitution, free and compulsory education is provided as a fundamental right to children between the ages of 6 and 14.

  India has made progress in terms of increasing the primary education attendance rate and expanding literacy to approximately three-quarters of the population in the 7-10 age group, by 2011.India's improved education system is often cited as one of the main contributors to its economic development. Much of the progress, especially in higher education and scientific research, has been credited to various public institutions.

  At the primary and secondary level, India has a large private school system complementing the government run schools, with 29% of students receiving private education in the 6 to 14 age group.Certain post-secondary technical schools are also private. The private education market in India had a revenue of US$450 million in 2008, but is projected to be a US$40 billion market.

  As per the Annual Status of Education Report (ASER) 2012, 96.5% of all rural children between the ages of 6-14 were enrolled in school. This is the fourth annual survey to report enrollment above 96%. Another report from 2013 stated that there were 229 million students enrolled in different accredited urban and rural schools of India, from Class I to XII, representing an increase of 2.3 million students over 2002 total enrollment, and a 19% increase in girl's enrollment. While quantitatively India is inching closer to universal education, the quality of its education has been questioned particularly in its government run school system. Some of the reasons for the poor quality include absence of around 25 percent of teachers everyday.States of India have introduced tests and education assessment system to identify and improve such schools.

   It is important to clarify that while there are private schools in India, they are highly regulated in terms of what they can teach, in what form they can operate (must be a non-profit to run any educational institution) and all other aspects of operation. Hence, the differentiation of government schools and private schools can be misguiding. 

NEED A CHANGE:

What do we need to change about the EDUCATION SYSTEM?? 

     Even Rabindranath Tagore wrote lengthy articles about how Indian education system needs to change. Education has been a problem in our country and lack of it has been blamed for all sorts of evil for hundreds of years. Comparing to colonial times few thing have changed. We have established IITs, IIMs, law schools and other institutions of excellence; students now routinely score 90% marks so that even students with 90+ percentage find it difficult to get into the colleges of their choice; but we do more of the same old stuff.

    Rote learning still plagues our system, students study only to score marks in exams, and sometimes to crack exams like IIT JEE, AIIMS . Few years before  the youngsters prepared for civil services and bank officers exams, but they now prepare to become engineers. If there are a few centres of educational excellence, for each of those there are thousands of mediocre and terrible schools, colleges and now even universities that do not meet even minimum standards. If things have changed a little bit somewhere, elsewhere things have sunk into further corruption and lack of ambition. 

       We also live in a country where the people see education as the means of climbing the social and economic ladder. If the education system is failing  then it is certainly not due to lack of demand for good education, or because a market for education does not exist Education system in India. 


FLAWS IN OUR EDUCATION SYSTEM:

    Our education system is  towards teaching and testing knowledge at every level as opposed to teaching skills. 

“Give a man a fish and you feed him one day, teach him how to catch fishes and you feed him for a lifetime.” 

    I believe that if you teach a man a skill, you enable him for a lifetime. Knowledge is is forgotten after the semester exam is over. Still, year after year Indian students focus on cramming information. The best crammers are rewarded by the system. This is one of the fundamental flaws of our education system. Everyone are writing just to fill their papers...Everyone want a change in our education system.. Bt everyone are just adapted to that system. Every person expects reward for their works.. Even our mom expects "how is my cooking today"..
  
     Now a days every one is unique in their own way. 
    
     " Reward creativity, original thinking, research and innovation." 

              Our education system rarely rewards what deserves highest academic accolades. Deviance is discouraged. Risk taking is mocked.

      " Our testing and marking systems need to be built to recognize original contributions, in form of creativity, problem solving, valuable original research and innovation. If we could do this successfully Indian education system would have changed overnight ".

    Memorising is no learning; the biggest flaw in our education system is perhaps that it incentivizes memorizing above originality.  

SUGGESTIONS:

  Get smarter people to teach:
         For way too long teaching became the sanctuary of the incompetent. Teaching jobs are until today widely regarded as safe, well-paying, risk-free and low-pressure jobs. Once a teacher told me in high school “Well, if you guys don’t study it is entirely your loss – I will get my salary at the end of the month anyway.” He could not put across the lack of incentive for being good at teaching any better. Thousands of terrible teachers all over India are wasting valuable time of young children every day all over India.
It is high time to encourage a breed of superstar teachers. The internet has created this possibility – the performance of a teacher now need not be restricted to a small classroom. Now the performance of a teacher can be opened up for the world to see. The better teacher will be more popular, and acquire more students. That’s the way of the future

Effective deregulation:

        Until today, an institute of higher education in India must be operating on a non profit basis. This is discouraging for entrepreneurs and innovators who could have worked in these spaces. On the other hand, many people are using education institutions to hide their black money, and often earning a hefty income from education business through clever structuring and therefore bypassing the rule with respect to not earning profit from recognized educational institutions. As a matter of fact, private equity companies have been investing in some education service provider companies which in turn provide services to not-for-profit educational institutions and earn enviable profits. Sometimes these institutes are so costly that they are outside the rich of most Indian students.
 There is an urgent need for effective de-regulation of Indian education sector so that there is infusion of sufficient capital and those who provide or create extraordinary educational products or services are adequately rewarded.

Personalize education :

        Personalise education– one size does not fit all.. Assembly line education prepares assembly line workers. However, the drift of economic world is away from assembly line production. Indian education system is built on the presumption that if something is good for one kid, it is good for all kids.
 Some kids learn faster, some are comparatively slow. Some people are visual learners, others are auditory learners, and still some others learn faster from exper
 ience. 

       "If one massive monolithic education system has to provide education to everyone, then there is no option but to assume that one size fits all. 

    If however, we can effectively decentralize education, and if the government did not obsessively control what would be the “syllabus” and what will be the method of instruction, there could be an explosion of new and innovative courses are prepared towards serving various niches of learners. 


Allow private capital in education:

        The government cannot afford to provide higher education to all the people in the country. It is too costly for the government to do so. The central government spends about 4% of budget expenditure on education, compared to 40% on defence. Historically, the government just did not have enough money to spend on even opening new schools and universities, forget overhauling the entire system and investing in technology and innovation related to the education system. Still, until today, at least on paper only non-profit organizations are allowed to run educational institutions apart from government institutions. Naturally, the good money, coming from honest investors who want to earn from honest but high impact businesses do not get into education sector. Rather, there are money launderers and politicians opening “private” educational institutions which extract money from the educational institution through creative structuring. The focus is on marketing rather than innovation or providing great educational service. 
    Allowing profit making will encourage serious entrepreneurs, innovators and investors to take interest in the education sector. The government does not have enough money to provide higher education of reasonable quality to all of us, and it has no excuse to prevent private capital from coming into the educational sector.

Make reservation irrelevant:

      We have reservation in education today because education is not available universally. Education has to be rationed. This is not a long –term solution. If we want to emerge as a country build on a knowledge economy, driven by highly educated people – we need to make good education so universally available that reservation will lose its meaning.
 Education reservation India:

     There is no reservation in online education – because it scales. Today top universities worldwide are taking various courses online, and today you can easily attend a live class taught by a top professor of Harvard University online if you want, no matter which country is belong to. This is the future, this is the easy way to beat reservation and make it inconsequential.

Education system is the major issue in our country.. Nowadays everyone are getting education but not proper knowledge. If our suggestion becomes true, then none of the education system will be  like our country and we will be the example for all other countries.. 

 "Give the voice to change the Education System"..